I'm an avoidant currently involved with an anxiously attached partner. The relationship is very challenging, mostly due to the physical symptoms of anxiety and stress that we both tend to feel as the relationship progresses. It often feels like something must be wrong, even though I can't find an obvious problem. Could you comment on any solutions to this avoidant/anxious dynamic, in that is there a possibility that it could be transformed into a secure attachment over time, or are you dubious about that possibility? I'm be really interested in your comments, as I'm very keen to make it work. I just worry whether these physical symptoms will subside with time. Thanks