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Old Jul 20, 2017, 08:12 AM
SilentMelodee SilentMelodee is offline
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Originally Posted by wheeler View Post
Not that she ever gave me Facebook, but her settings were open and I got to see all her pictures and posts.

Unfortunately, filled with guilt I told her about it last week. I checked a few times since then and she hadn't changed her settings so I figured she really wasn't pissed at me and she still trusted me.

However, I foolishly checked today and low-and-behold she had changed her settings so I can no longer see any posts/pictures.

This has me crushed and a bit swirling, and a but ticked off. Logically I know I don't have any right to these feelings, or her pictures and posts for that matter. But I can't seem to help feeling this way. And I can't talk to her about, and I'm not sure I can talk to her at all.

I've always struggled with this, the one-sided relationship. Her knowing everything about me, but I only get to know things that she's carefully selected.

I don't know how to talk to her about not talking to her.

I guess I just need to get these frustrations out.

Thanks
How did she react to you telling her this? I mean, she changed her privacy settings on FB, but how did she act when you told her you were looking at her facebook?
Thanks for this!
wheeler