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Originally Posted by iPhone
This is one of the con's of the internet. She could be doing this due to a mental condition or underlying need. She could be doing it to troll because she's bored. She could have an ulterior motive.
And that's the other thing-you will never know the reason either, unless she confesses and shows proof of her true identity, ie Facebook. By continuing to be her friend and ignoring the lies, you are encouraging a behavior that is not acceptable and could potentially hurt a lot of people.
Give her an ultimatem...she either starts telling the truth or you're done.
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The thing is, is the person doing it, isn't my friend, it is My friends..friend (Yes i know how it sounds!). lets call her Y.
I have only talked to Y a few times, she really wouldn't care if i gave her that ultimatum. She would probably like it, as me saying that to her, she'd tell my friend knowing my friend would react badly. And thats probably what she wants, as it would drive a wedge between me and my friend) and the Y related incidents have increased since i became known to this Y person - coma is the 3rd in 3 weeks.
I want to get my friend away from this Y person, but she seems intent on believing the coma event happened simply because of a 'discharge' form. And vilifying us (its your fault, you are wrong, you are to blame) for trying to turn us again Y.
And i dont know how, if it is wise to just give her a digital slap in the face hitting her with all the facts trying to get her to see reason, or just to avoid the drama and walk away.
Thank you for the input guys, i appreciate it.