how much is it? i still bleed almost every time because i tear almost every time and i have been sexually active for about 5 years. is it from the inside or is it like a tear on the outside that bleeds? does it also happen from sex? if its on the inside and only happens during fingering then i would say to tell whoever is doing it to BE GENTLE!!! you should never be humiliated by it. For some reason girls think that these problems that are common are unique to them because no one ever talks about them. So never feel ashamed or embarassed about your body.

Do you even have sex or is this as far as it goes? Is it accompanied by pain or just bleeding? I think if you are just beginning to be sexually active and don't do this all the time that it's normal. If it still scares you then go to a doctor, obviously. But unless it's accompanied by any of the things I mentioned I wouldn't worry too much.