I saw three different ts at one point. At present I see two. I see them for different purposes; T1 often asks about what I am doing with T3. I feel free to talk to him about what is going on with T3, including when I am upset with her. I don't talk to T3 about T1 much; partly because what I do with T3 has to do with childhood, partly because I am ashamed of how attached I am to T1.
I don't worry about what I have said to whom. I figure if they need/want more detail they can ask for it.
I have not discerned any feeling of competition between them. For me, it is like seeing a GP and a specialist. If I think that either needs to know something about what the other is doing, I just say it.
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