My 1st & 2nd Ts were both pretty dishonest. My 2nd was much worse though...she is a habitual liar/manipulator. I wasn't strong enough, nor felt safe enough to say anything to either of them at the time though. (I'm kicking myself now all the time for staying so long with both of them.) T C though....he's a good egg. I know he would never lie but if I suspected something, I feel safe enough to call him on it. But yeah, a T (or anyone for that matter!) lying about someone dying is a huge red flag and I'd get as far away as possible.