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Old Jul 21, 2017, 07:16 PM
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My mother was an alcoholic and my father was abusive in many ways. Control was a big deal. A lot of my young life was out of control. I became a perfectionist which served me well in the military, but a disaster in my personal life.

I also see it in my daughter, to the point where she won't take anything that is sedating. We have to coach her hard for when she had to go under anesthesia.
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