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Old Jul 22, 2017, 06:31 AM
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I sure understand how you feel, doing something against your best judgement just because your pressured into it. You want to make her happy. Be the nice guy. Well now you know what happens to nice guys. We get screwed, and not in a pleasurable way. I've given in many times. They are just selfish. Only care about themselves. Not how you feel. Your just the mule.
The move has already been made so now you have no choice but to live with it.
Find peace with this somehow or the resentment and anger will eat you alive.
Plus probably end you up in divorce court. She won't care since she'll be " close to her family ". As you might have guessed I've been down a similar road.
I needed to save myself. Find something to do that makes you feel good enough to get your mind off of this. And think ahead about self preservation. Don't mess up at work. Your going to need and maintain control over your own life.
I've found that the further along you go in marriage and in life it all boils down to the primal instincts of self preservation. Compromise is something selfish people don't deal in. Protect yourself from here on out. Find as many consoling "ears" as you can. Good luck and hang in there.
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