I didn't even start menopause until I was about 52 and that's when my periods started getting really light and I'd miss some on occasion. Now that I'm 55, I haven't had my period for a year and a half so I think that I'm in full blown menopause. Luckily, I don't get very many hot flashes! Those are really tough to take!

Don't you have an annual physical? I'd think that your Doctor would just bring it up, but if not, you could just say what you said here or write her a note and give it to her. I know for me, we have an online system where I can email and I'd just sent an email with your concern, if that's a possibility.

Good luck!