Blanche - Yes, I have read the definition of malignant eroticised transference as it is described in that paper, I have read the definition of stalking that you posted, and I have read the statistics on the site I posted. To me, all three seem to confirm my opinion, to you they seem to confirm yours. It seems we're just going to go round in circles here.

As I did originally say - I believe (as do the majority of therapists, as far as I can tell) that such dangerous behaviour is rare and that the vast majority of erotic transference does not inspire clients to act in such a manner.