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Originally Posted by artemis-within
I'm so happy for you LT! That's great!
And I swear you and I are so alike - one of the first little tiffs I had with my t was because she said to me a long time ago in a moment of frustration "I can't help it if you have a problem with women in authority." I just remembered that. Maybe I should have paid more attention to little **** like that and not stayed with her this long.... hindsight being 20/20 and all that....
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Thanks, Art.
Interesting that your T said that. Hindsight does make things much clearer...but I also wonder if your T might have some issues with people, especially females, challenging her authority? I forget, does she have kids?
I definitely have some negative maternal transference for my T. I keep expecting her to react like my mom would to some stuff. And then the times she *does* say something that reminds me of my mom, it just reinforces it. And that's bad because it makes me reluctant to tell her about certain things. Which is made worse when she says she doesn't want to know about them (length of most recent MC phone call, for example).