Yes we wento therapy & he thought it was a waste of time. I expected that response when he told me my own therapy was a waste of time too.

He REFUSES to change. And his view on this won't change. What seems to be changing is mine sad to say.
I'm tired of trying to hold the other side of the family together only for our kids sakes. I do all the work. He does none. He wants nothing to do with his siblings.