I'm in a weird place with my own T. She lied to me about something small that had no impact on our relationship, but I found out it was a lie recently. I e-mailed her because I have a hard time bringing stuff like this up in person. It's definitely thrown my for a loop as trust is a huge, huge, huge issue for me (one of the major reasons I'm seeing her).

Lying about a dying family member? I don't know. That would be hard to work through.