I actually didn't mean the occurrences of using the word "transference" or any other jargon. I did not mean those posts where people actively discuss any professional terms. Rather, I meant the stories told in this forum where people honestly talk about their feelings that arise in therapy, without ever mentioning any of the "dubious concepts".

And you're right, if you would go to any other forum that discusses relationships between people (not necessarily therapeutic relationship) you would most certainly find the same patterns there as well.

And you're right again - this is most certainly textbook material because it is just so natural and prevalent in human relationships. So I don't really understand what you are trying to say.