Hey immscared:
I think you may have gotten the wrong idea. I'm not the one interested in this lifestyle. I don't dislike people that choose this, but I've been married for the past 33 years now. Soon to be 34 on the 21st. of Feb. We have been thru
alot in those years, and managed to stay together in spite of
everything, and ourselves!! lol....................
I never would have believed I'd stay married this long, yet alone at all???? I never pictured myself the marrying kind.
After all I went through my parents divorce, their volital marriage, and being dirt poor besides all that. The Navy is not the way to the streets of gold!! But you persevere and go on with what you have, and you let the small stuff take care of itself.
They did the best they could with what they had, and I guess for the times, that was the best they could do. Ok, but
I'm trying to let the anger go. It doesn't serve any purpose now that they're both gone.

Anyway, I hope that clears things up. I was trying to give advice to the person above who posted her lifestyle.