Hi. I hope to help but I could come off as a bit harsh. You might be the most attractive woman on earth and it doesn't guarantee you find a boyfriend or a date. There is some very good truths in the advice you have been given. We don't control our lives or deserve anything to be for an absolute given to us. Many people never have a taste of what you are hoping to have. It doesn't mean you give up hope or that you need to accept something you can't accept. I do think it might help you to listen to Eckhart Tolle on YouTube. You can type in his name and whatever you'd like, possibly relationships or difficult emotions, etc. Best wishes.