Well girlN:
Don't let that get you down. Sex ISN'T the only thing that holds the relationship in place. If it was, I WOULDN'T be married anymore. I had to take a step back and decide for
myself what I needed from the marriage....you don't get both
in life. My first was the biggest loser in America because he
wanted to be! (an 18 year old alcoholic). My second was/is
a great provider...........not a Don Juan.........so which do I choose? I'd rather have the lifestyle than the bedroom any day in the week. The bedroom won't get you what you want
and is NOT the big deal your mother makes it out to be!!!

Decide for yourself what makes YOU happy.....you may have
to make some changes or trade-offs in the future, but the alternatives lack luster. For me, I don't miss the action/ or the lack of it one little bit. I FAILED at that class....and I'm not going back. I wasn't very good at love making, and I just
think it's because I really DON'T like it much. Long story.....
maybe some other time?

Gays don't bother me at all. Hell, live and let live. Any religion that prohibits Gods children because of their choices in life is no church I want to be acquainted with or belong to.
In the immortal words from the show LAW AND ORDER....
the character who plays the D.A............." let them marry....they can be miserable along with the rest of us"!!!!

Some real catchy phrases came out of that show.