To add to what Mona said above - my diploma course did not include training on erotic transference, in fact I can't remember it ever even being mentioned. I attempted a few times to talk with my classmates about my experience with it and they responded variously... With confusion, embarrassment, curiosity and shock - when I spoke in a triad once about my loving feelings for my T the peer who was meant to be 'counselling' me literally gasped in horror! We laughed about it but, yeah... What is her response going to be if a client expresses such feelings towards her?