He was a jerk in pushing me away for several weeks. I don't agree with my father because he's never met my boyfriend. I agree that I should be cautious and be limited on mistakes for fear of being hurt. Not sure this answers all questions..... He just said he had to stay away so he wouldn't blab or tell me what he was working on; what makes it more from the heart is that he has cerebal palsy so he can really only use one hand primarily to make things but he doesn't let his disability get him down and that makes me proud and feel special, etc.