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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
I agree it is dangerous and that was highlighted in my research too that sometimes therapists don't and can't bring issues like this to their supervisor because of different dynamics- male female, fear of judgement. Fear of being unprofessional.
I gave to say, I have been blessed with two of my therapists because they were so open and non judgemental and really encourage me to bring the not so good stuff( their words, not mine) .
You are very right lucazador, discovering your own sexuality is so important and often so hard, I wonder is some ts are afraid to explore it in case they find something uncomfortable or messy in there.
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I had a crazy experience with ET with my T, it was a recipe for disaster right off the bat because we were the same age, the opposite sex and in for incredibly long, somewhat experimental sessions. When it finally hit and I confessed my ET, it was crazy.... T sent a lot of mixed messages about it. I am so disappointed that there aren't more widely available T's who specialize in helping someone deal with an ET. If anyone here knows of any T's who are well versed, experienced and open to trying to really help someone work on an ET they have/had with a different T.... who can work via skype (regardless of fees because that's not an issue) Please PM me and provide their contact details because I'm desperately searching for someone who can help me make sense of a traumatic ET with a T whom I ended things with nearly a year ago and still struggle with. Any recommendations, help or advice is much appreciated. Anyone and everyone is welcome to PM me. Even if it's just to share our experiences or ask questions or offer tips and coping strategies, that'd be great.