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Originally Posted by Trace14
You are the one that deserves the praise, YOU DID IT!!!!!!!! No matter how much support you have it all comes down to YOU and YOU applying yourself 
I just don't want to think that feeling safe is a substitute for getting the care and respect you deserve. There needs to be healthy boundaries between T's and clients. He's doing a job you are paying him for, and that is what you should be getting. If you are getting too emotionally attached to this T you need to address that with him before you really get hurt by him, and him not meaning to. Just be careful , okay? I don't want to see you get hurt. Not all therapist are good people. They are just people.  |
Thank you. I appreciate that very much!
I agree 100% about healthy boundaries and C is trying very hard to have them because T 1 & 2 crossed almost every boundary possible. He keeps telling me that he is trying very hard to respect my feelings about "too much therapy." Hence him "giving me space" when I had major symptoms. T 1 & 2 used me for money and had me going in for sessions way too often because they needed the cash. He told me that he really wants this to be a great experience for me and he will do everything to make it work. Since his oversight (read: colossal mistake) these past two weeks is honestly the first time he messed up I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt. He's had a few positive impacts on me already and just this one negative, that's good right? I'm so confused about therapy at this point that I'm not sure what's ok and what's not. I will be very careful though and get unbiased opinions (post here!) when I'm struggling!