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Originally Posted by CriesAndGoodbyes
Wow, it sounds like you're in a difficult situation.... but it also sounds like you might be walking down the path of Erotic Transference and if I could go back to the stage where you're at now... I'd run and never look back. Because that would've saved me from the torture of falling in love with a man I could never have and it's incredibly painful and made me even sicker than I was when I entered therapy. Just a warning.... No therapist is worth playing with fire because you always get burned. But you don't have to take my word for it, you can see for yourself if you choose.
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I understand the advice you gave, but the chances are this is a pattern & is very lightly to be repeated with another T. It shows there is a need to be loved & is just 'misplaced' My advice would be to work with it, talk about it really openly with your T & it will get easier to bear. Many things in therapy are hard, uncomfortable, embarrassing, but they are the very things that we 'need' to work on. Patterns don't change by themselves!