All this indecision you are going through regarding sending her a card must be hard for you. I can understand how difficult it must be.

At this point, I think the important thing for YOU would be to make a decision now....one way or another and let the chips fall where they may. Trying to second guess yourself and this other person can really suck the life out of you.

We can't always forsee the future or tell how someone will react (or not react) to something we do. Trying to figure it all out ahead of time is futile and very counter productive.

Personally, my thought is to just send the card and go on from there. At least that way, you know in your heart you showed her Christmas spriit. Whether or not she responds in kind is completely up to her....you have no control over that part of this situation.

Wishing you well!


sabby