I know what you are talking about. But I don't question whether I'm a bad person, I question where my support network is. I am the friend that when someone has a crisis I drop everything and go visit, no matter how far they are. I am the family member that takes days off work to fit in with what everyone else decides to do. I am also the one that anytime I try and discuss feeling low, that everyone manages to divert the conversation straight back to themselves. So I have become used to just steering clear of people when I'm low, on the odd occasion that I forget how unimportant my mental well being is, I am quickly reminded by the total lack of concern or even acknowledgment of what I say. I doubt very much your a bad person, sometimes its the good hearted people that get taken advantage of. Chin up, it could be worse we could be Them