Salukigirl,
We have been married 35 years. I don't like living in the country, and husband refuses to even consider moving. I've lost some respect for him, b/c of this stance. If it hadn't been from money from my side of the family, or my former big career, we wouldn't have what we have.
He has grown in a lot of ways emotionally over the years, but still has his hissy fits.

He has them over a bunch of unimportant things.

Since we live out in the middle of nowhere, and I don't see anyone else, it's a real downer.
Thanks for listening, Friends.
EJ