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Originally Posted by Douthat
Yeah, that's what Im scared of happening. I think he and I should talk it out more to make sure it is what we both want. I have said to him before that I don't want emotional attachment, but I know how easy that can form. Definitely have to be careful! Thanks for your input.  |
So this is what you might think about doing....
Talk about this. In particular, what will this relationship be defined by and what are it's limits. Take the time to consider and agree upon what signs would indicate the arrangement (for that is what it is) is going awry. Make a decision beforehand on at what point and circumstances it must come to an end. Agree upon mutual expectations. Define what the relationship will look like: when, where, what, etc. Finally, this definitely should include a discussion about what will happen should the one or other of you decide to pursue a relationship with another.
Something also to consider is who is winning in this relationship? What would each of you be getting out of it.