It sounds like in both cases you revealed information about yourself that made others feel uncomfortable, and (I think) it is their right to refuse to see you as a client. I don't know much about your background or charges, but perhaps while you feel you have done nothing wrong, others feel as if boundaries have been crossed. If multiple people have reacted to you this way, it's time to start looking at yourself and what can be changed. Therapy might be very helpful to navigate appropriate self-disclosure.