I'm in a bit of a pickle too, its not that I'm scared of anyone getting in trouble, I just feel uncomfortable saying things, I think sometimes because you hold something to yourself for so long, its like you become loyal to the secret (crazy I know) I have typed mine up and once I feel I am speaking to the right person (trust issues) I will give it to them. I think I need a woman to talk to, because I'n not sure men are cut out to know how women can feel and think.