I understand what you mean, I joined a forum a few weeks ago where the people were so wrapped up in their own problems, there were no discussions going on. People were just all making their own threads by the minute. The only discussions they would enter was where people were saying they were suicidal at that precise moment. My conclusion was that they may have spent that long trying to get help that they had lost the concept of conversation. I had to leave the forum, it was a lonely toxic environment. This forum seems a lot better.

As for people with no MI I dont find them very helpful at listening, Im tired of hearing

We all feel like that
You just have to get organized
I dont want to get up some mornings
Thats how it was back then

I had to cut a convo dead just the other day by saying well we aren't talking about you for once, we are talking about me and unfortunately I don't have your coping mechanisms or motivation skills. Its not often that I snap with loved ones but every so often I have to.