If she is calling you needy and says or implies that she can no longer fulfill your childish needs then she is not taking responsibility for her own incompetence or her limitations. She is putting the responsibility for the termination on you. She "has to" terminate because you are so "needy"? Why not just say she doesn't feel competent or experienced enough to continue to work with you and to give you referrals like she is SUPPOSED to and to make sure that your transition to the new therapist goes smoothly? Yes, she is supposed to give you referrals if she is the one who terminates the work regardless of why she terminates, otherwise it's an abandonment and it's unethical. You shouldn't be put in the position when you have to desperately shop for a new therapist and be afraid to tell them about your termination. This is ********. If she can't work with you, she has to own it instead of blaming you for being "needy" and she has to terminate in the ethical manner like she is supposed to.