OHhh ((((Soliaree))))

How can he force you to stop the transference? I don't understand.

I am sorry you are in so much pain. Can you discuss these questions with him? Can you get to the root of them? If you can figure out why you feel this way it might help. But you need a T's help for that!

Are you confusing transference with boundaries? I did that recently and T explained to me what was going on. I felt better once I understood.

Transference is an important component of therapy.

I know my T is a human being. I know he has a family whom he lives with and a wife he loves. But that doesn't mean an end to the transference.....when I am with him (and not) I still have feelings. After all, I am a human too and so are you!!

Hugs.