yes and no, he has been helpful in trying to give ideas of jobs i could do/like, however I'm failing miserably at getting any in those areas so I'm basically giving up

i did tell him about what i wanted to do before i settled in life, and how i lost interest since then. it went alright i guess

i am at the point, i dont feel i have a calling. I'll probably just settle as I've done most my life sadly

but its a good idea to mention this sure, your T might be helpful