I know T cares about me because of how responsive he has been when I am in pain. I know he cares because when I fell apart he called me without me calling him first--he said he was reaching out to me--I know he cares because he said his heart would break if we ended now.
I know it's real because he looked me in the eye one day and said, "Sister, this is real."
sigh
((((jello)))) why don't you ask?