With Disasters 1 & 2 I was soooooooo cautious. I didn't reveal much at all and considering I was with 1 for 3 years, that says a lot. I didn't tell 2 much because she's bat **** crazy. But with T C, I'm trying to do everything differently. I've told him more in 5 months than either of my previous Ts combined. I'm comfortable with him and that makes all the difference. It will be a long, long time before I get into the really deep stuff but I don't feel afraid to just dive in with certain topics.