We'd agreed on ending in November, then we had this huge blow up because I was angry at her and she didn't take it well, we tried to work it out, but it's not and things deteriorated very rapidly after that and 9 days ago she said she needed a break so we took a month off or longer or forever I don't know. The ball is in my court to call her or not after a month break. Yeah. Been seeing her almost 6 years. She's 12 years older than me. And yes very very attached! And realizing in the past 9 days through a lot of work on my part that I had been emotionally dependent on her for a long time... that's the short of it....