You're right, BP doesn't have to dictate our lives except when perhaps in a severe episode. Finding hobbies I love, going to beautiful places, playing and listening to music and socialising with good people helps me have mini vacations. I wouldn't stop my meds at this point though. Right now I'm in a deep depression and have suddenly gone hypo. Won't hear me complaining. It is a vacation in itself. I'm IP and am being watched for mania and a swing back to depression but for now I'm going to enjoy being so damn cheerful.

Sorry, rambling so not sure if I answered your question correctly.