its really complicated so i'll just try and simplify it

my mum gets a carers premium for caring for me but she doesn't actually care for me anymore, i don't want to stop her from getting this premium because there is no gain in that but it is annoying that she is getting it and all i get is a cup of tea and a roll and bacon and egg every Sunday, plus i help her more than she helps me now,

she will fall out with me if i stop it and i don't want to do that.