I was really really attached to my last therapist, S. Unfortunately, it was an unhealthy attachment that really damaged me. He knew how attached I was, and unfortunately, he used it to sort of build himself up... and fuel himself. It ended very badly. I am still attached to him, we are attempting to remain friends, but are on a no-contact break right now (my request).

I am mildly attached to my current therapist, J. However, he seems very uncomfortable with any sort of real attachment, and it is just not working out. He is very young, and I am not in a place right now where I want to be anyone's "learning client." So, I'm currently seeking a therapist who is very experienced in attachment work.