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Old Jul 29, 2017, 06:08 PM
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I am extremely attached to one of my Ts. In my own avoidant and inarticulate way, I have communicated the depths of this attachment to him-- and he has picked up on these clues and been very supportive. He is one of those Ts that encourages attachment as part of the therapy process- for me I have never been attached to anyone, so I have had to learn it with him. He gives me touch whenever I want or need it, and goes out of his way to let me know he's there for me. That said, there is absolutely no out-of-session contact- it's scheduling only, unless I am particularly shaken up by something in session, then I may call that week. This strict boundary frustrates me sometimes but I'm also very glad it's there, balancing the intimacy of our sessions.
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Thanks for this!
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