Well, one party down :-) Minor crisis as the ex-wife's sister's boyfriend was a different boyfriend we'd never met today! Apparently the old boyfriend suddenly decided to start dating someone else (and we've known him 2-3 years now!) without even telling her. So the present for him, it was all "addressed" to him :-) But it was a gift certificate and I took the card out of the envelope so it was just a signed card from us and broke the name, to/from part of the gift certificate off to throw away so it was just the gift card itself but we're still wondering who to give it to when the sister reminds us that Monday is her birthday :-) so, gave her the naked card with the restaurant gift card to her and wished her a happy birthday, LOL. I think she suspected as she was saying that the new boyfriend would benefit from the gift certificate too. But she's cool, and I really like her; my present to her was a flying monkey sling shot :-) http://www.slingshotflyingmonkey.com/