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Old Jul 29, 2017, 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted by daisydid View Post
My trauma history. I have been hurt loudly and often, so I think deep down the thought of forging connections with people terrifies me. When I connect, I am usually hurt again.

Exhibit A: I thought it would be safe to connect to my T. Boy was I wrong.

I've also noticed I haven't called him RoboT today. Just T. Hmm.
Perhaps he is telling you this because he cares and wants you to get help even though he is retiring (or whatever it is). My t would mention I might should see another T in the beginning of our journey. I would react the same way. Be upset and feel like he's trying to get rid of me. Years later I now see he just cared and wanted me to get better even if it meant without him
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