Attachment is ****ing hard for most everyone that feels it. If my story and thoughts can be of use to anyone then good, if not that is okay too. Our processes in and out of therapy are not going to be the same. We don't even want the samethings from therapy or the therapist. I'm sorry my post afffected you negatively, but please don't take my post personally. You do what you need to do for you.

I have a passion about therapy as a good thing, given where I was ~6 years ago after an epic fail in therapy, and I may sometimes say too much for some peopl.