Troubled is a nice way of putting it lol. It's really not funny but I have to laugh to keep from spiraling from it all. The investigator has made a police report but we were told from the Justice Center that I cannot be granted an OoP unless she's made threats to my life on more than one occasion or has physically harmed me. So basically they can't intervene until it's too late. I don't fear for my life at this point but she is very unstable. (She doesn't take her meds like she should.) She just comes by my house and sits under my window and texts/emails. She doesn't come to my door because I have a camera. I never go outside when she comes by. She has approached me at public events and tries to intimidate me but I've been able to walk away and get lost in the crowd. Thankfully her T appointment day is Thursday (when she bothers to go) and my days are on Tuesday & Friday. But T C has told me to be cautious on my days and if I feel unsafe to let him know & he will come outside to get me and walk me back afterward. I've been going for 5 months and haven't had a problem yet. So keeping my fingers crossed on that one.

I had an appointment with T C this morning. He's promised my Fridays are booked indefinitely. I think I can breathe a sigh of relief. He even offered me a 3rd day, which I turned down for now, but told him that might change during problem weeks and I would let him know. So this weekend I am going to work on a timeline that pinpoints that problem weeks and give it to him on Tuesday and we'll go from there.

How are you doing with just the group? Have you tried the exercises on that website?