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Originally Posted by Swimmersusan
I'm attached too, never thought I would be, then a couple of months innit hit me hard, got me scared and got me confused! I don't like the feeling of relying and depending on another person, because in my experience you are setting yourself up to be hurt when feelings are involved!
I have talked in session quite a bit about it, minus saying the words attachment. She has taken it all in her stride, well appears to have, and that does somewhat reassure me, however I'm still scared of being abandoned.
I think I need to talk to her abit more about it in all honesty but i hate that I seem to need constant reassurance regarding this topic. Thankfully she's always been very patient with me.
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I really identify with you over the 'abandonment' issue. I've found telling my T just how I feel, really, really helps. It takes you to your 'original' abandonment, which is really painful, but does put it in the 'here & now' & shows you where that feeling really comes from.