Like I said, I *enjoy* being attached. I don't suffer from it. I don't have unrealistic expectations, I don't agonize over it, it is not ruining my life etc etc. I enjoy liking my T, trusting her and believing she is committed to our work together. Such relationship helps me tremendously to talk and process things I want to, trauma included. My relationship with my T and being attached to her has made me much stronger and happier outside therapy. Why it is such a bad thing to someone?