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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
therein lies the problem for me anyway, i think. my t used my attachment too as part of the healing process. she (i guess) just didn't know how to keep my attachment from turning into emotional dependency and then once it did, she didn't see it, and neither did i, so we weren't able to 'correct course' when we should have to prevent this ultimate collapse of the whole thing. that's my two cents anyway on my own situation 11 days out from my last session.
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I feel so sorry that this situation has happened to you. I just feel that you have 'unfinished' business with your T. I feel that you 'need' this issue resolved in some way, even if that means you go back in November. At the moment, you have no closure & nor do you have the opportunity to process this mess. IMO, you deserve answers from her & even if you still feel hurt by her after that session, at least you can put your feelings out there on the table. You can then walk out of her office knowing that you tried as much as you possibly could.
