Thank you everyone for your suggestions. I have been keeping a log of all events related to this in case it becomes a legal matter. I definitely don't feel like I will be going back to work in a good environment. I work in a place that is like a "boys club" and a number of these guys have accused me of making these things up, although I have nothing to gain by doing that, and I have concrete evidence. The judge listened to my account of events as well as the stalker's account and he concluded that this man was "dangerously obsessed" with me. Those were the judge's words. And yet work has done nothing. Just thinking about it makes me feel like I'm going to throw up. My short term disability is only about half of what I normally make but none of my expenses are halved so now there are financial worries on top of everything else. I don't want to quit my job, but I feel like it's going to come to that. I don't know if the company just doesn't want to fire him or the union protection is saving his job. It's just so frustrating. They say sexual harassment will not be tolerated, but then they tolerate it.
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