A man who has been married over 20 years. has a great life. started having affairs. tells a new affair partner that he wonders if he will ever find the love of his life. Then asks her if she thinks everyone has a love of their life out there somewhere. She tells him she doesn't know. Their affair continues. Then he asks her if it is bad that he really likes her. She doesn't give him an answer. He continues to act like he is really into this new partner.

He does seem a little needy, like he needs attention and is also very touchy.

Any advice of what this man is doing, what he wants? Sorry, I am just curious as to how people work?