sweetie... men are all different... really....like the husband's of my friends... they wouldn't know how to wrap a present - meaning they all have been married forever.. and they've never wrapped a present... it's "woman's" job..

And my son.... (23) just said "grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.. had to wrap some presents"... in other words... not real happy about the whole thing.. he when he gives his gf a present.. sticks it in a gift bag... and says "ahhhhhhhhh done"....

I think... that some men do not place a sentimental value on decorating... and things like that... but it doesn't mean they don't care..and also that they do not enjoy it when someone else makes the effort to do it..

I know my son cares... he just doesn't like to wrap presents...and he does love a decorated house... but his mind... heis ADHD... is racing to "wanta go ice fishing"..

((((hugs))).... I know you are hurting...