i'd say knowing that you can be yourself without judgement, and knowing if anything happened to you, you'd be safe.

it's really important to me, both those things, as sadly I don't have the support I need or the coping methods I need, so it is a bit of a break from faking it all (which is good)

also the funny stories you can tell from being their. you can have a right laugh if you meet the right people during your stay

question: do you ever feel sorry for yourself?